Yes, I know what the purpose of this site is. No, I don't care, & I'm still going to look for what I'm looking for. I don't just want a friend with benefits or anonymous no-strings-attached fling. I'm in a situation that I'm not looking to change any time soon. However, I no longer receive attention, affection, or anything physical. I'm very bubbly, happy-go-lucky, outgoing, & warm. Those qualities, in addition to words of affirmation & acts of service, are my love languages, but none are being addressed. I want someone that I click well with, who can carry on conversations on a multitude of topics, who I can laugh with, share flirty banter with, someone who's not afraid of the butterflies, strings, & feelings. I'd ultimately like something akin to a side relationship, where we anticipate hearing from each other everyday, texting throughout the day when possible, seeing each other a few times a month in whatever capacity allows. You could consider me be a bbw, bc I’m thick & kinda chubby. If you’re looking for a tiny, petite girl, it’s not me. I’m generally most attracted to men who are a little taller with bigger builds (200-300). I’m not a small girl, so I’m not the most comfortable with shorter or slimmer men. I’d also probably say I’m looking for someone within my age range, like 35-45, but am open to any around around 30-55. I’m friendly with & respect everyone. However, I’m interested in heterosexual males. I’m not really looking for bisexual or herteoflexible males or couples. I appreciate any interest, but have to politely decline. == Results from bdsmtest.org == 90% Submissive 83% Vanilla 74% Primal (Prey) 67% Brat 67% Rope bunny 67% Boy/Girl 34% Masochist 34% Switch 33% Experimentalist 30% Non-monogamist 21% Rigger 19% Primal (Hunter) 17% Slave 15% Ageplayer 15% Exhibitionist 14% Pet 13% Dominant 13% Voyeur 6% Brat tamer 6% Sadist 5% Daddy/Mommy 3% Owner 2% Master/Mistress 2% Degrader 0% Degradee

My Ideal Person Bigger, protective, tough guy exterior, but my sweet teddy bear when we’re together.