I am looking for a friend with benefits. Someone I can have a connection with, outside of sex. Of course, that connection will lead to awesome sex. If I can talk with you, laugh with you, and trust you, the sex is truly out of this world. But I do not want just a fuck buddy. I can find that anywhere. So, you'll need to be prepared to get to know each other on a deeper level. I’m pretty open sexually and occasionally desire intimacy with another female. I've had plenty of experience. I love sharing sexual energy with others. Be it a 3some, 4some or a group/orgy environment. If you are not comfortable exploring in group situations, parties, etc.. please do not contact me. I'm not looking to sleep with every Tom, Dick and Harriett, but I am seeking open relationships with a few good friends. I am a thick, curvy, voluptuous woman. I definitely have the wiggly parts of a 43 year old woman, so, if you can’t love those wiggly parts, as much as everything else about me, we would definitely not be a compatible physical match. I am professional and conservative with a girl-next-door look and perality. I am quirky at times, carefree and full of adventure in the right company. I am sexy from the inside out. I love pleasing my partner. I'm not jealous or possessive and I'm secure with who I am and what I have to offer. I treat others the way I wish to be treated and expect the same in return. I'm not just looking for a piece of meat and I'm not looking for someone who would treat me like a walking vagina. I'm looking for someone who agrees that romance is the spice of life. I like play dates, trips to art museums, shopping for lingerie, the occasional toy store run, weekends to the coast, home sex parties, spa treatment/mani-pedi days, the occasional swingers club, local attractions, friend house parties, as well as, girlfriends night out and quality alone time. ,to name a few things :) Safe sex only. Condoms are a must. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*I contracted herpes 2.5 years ago from a lover I had a 3 month rendezvous with. I have had it long enough now to know that it is not a big deal, as far as symptoms, or the occasional outbreak (3 outbreaks in 2.5 yrs that I was able to immediately detect and stop in its tracks by taking my medication). it is merely a ‘once-in-a-while’ inconvenience that requires me to take medication when I feel it coming on. Feel free to read up on it to get educated. It's not life threatening, and it's not that big of a deal. But you decide. WARNING: Any institutions using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You do NOT have my permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a serious violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications.

My Ideal Person Be passionate and truly love and respect women. Be highly sexual with a healthy libido to keep up with mine. Have working parts, and be able to meet regularly for visitation and amazing sex. Be flexible with your schedule and able to come to me, as well as invite me to your place on occasion. Do not be married or cheating in a relationship.

Be relatively HWP, healthy, non smoker (herb ok). Enjoy social drinking, but do not be an alcoholic.

Have good hygiene, but if you have to take a shower five minutes after cumming or are skeeved out by normal sexual fluids including sweat, you're not for me. If you are not turned on by a woman squirting, or do not enjoy giving oral sex, you are not for me. I am not into water-sports, per say, but if I were to urinate in the midst of a good pounding session, I would expect you to not miss a beat.

I am really turned on by a man with a larger than average working package, excellent stamina, and who can cum multiple times in an evening. That isn't always possible to find in one man, so, at the very least be interested in continuing to play long after you've cum.
While I'm no stranger to porn, it's not something I need/want to get off. I am not into a man who learned about sex through porn and thinks that is what women want.
Looking for someone that enjoys a lady's company. Someone who truly enjoys pleasing; from running a hot bubble bath to giving relaxing caresses and massages, and of course, playing with my body for hours. I am multi orgasmic and am not satisfied unless the bed is soaked. This takes a few hours.

I'm not perfect and am not looking for perfection, but I'm picky about who I spend my time with, and hope you are too.

My deal breakers are: poor hygiene, players, bi-sexual men, heavy smokers, drugs, drama, negativity, gossipers, liars, cheaters, the closed minded and know-it-all's who won't let others speak their mind.

If you're interested, Email me about yourself, and how we are compatible. Please attach a photo of your face, or at least something other than just your penis. If we connect on line, I would be interested in meeting you in a public venue, sooner rather than later, for coffee/tea/drinks/420 bowl.