I am a very fit, older academic, bisexual, vers. I am in an open marriage. I do cycling, weights, walking. I like classical and jazz music, modern art, crosswords, the game of Go, theater, conversation. I'd like to find some long-term “friends with benefits".

My Ideal Person I like people who like to socialize (conversation, dinner, perhaps going to a gallery or concert together, etc.). I am a bisexual male, and I would prefer the male (single or partner) to want and enjoy male-to-male sex. My wife is straight, but "bi-comfy". We usually play singly, sometimes as a couple. If we play as a couple, the man should be bi/bicurious, the woman either bi or straight. I am not particularly kinky. I'm a fairly avid cyclist. I love to walk. I read sci-fi to relax; I play Go. I prefer people in fairly good to very good shape. I'm not comfortable with someone who is deceiving their partner, e.g., "single" men/women on the "down-low". Also, please do not bother to answer if you are a straight single man, a couple with a straight man uncomfortable being around a male bisexual, or a woman who only wants sex with another woman. No Trumpies, please. I’m not “generous”.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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