I am in a wheelchair. I'm a medically retired Paramedic of 17 years. I'm currently attending school and working on my master's in Psychology. my end goal is to be a sex & relationship therapist. I was told by a few of my friends that I would make a good one. who knows, we will see. I'm certified in full body Swedish Massage & sensual Massages , including deep tissue work. I am also an H-4 paracyclist with the challenged athlete's foundation. my goal with that is to race in the Paralympics. don't really want to win, just being there would be enough for me. I'm looking for friendship and a long term relationship. I'm a bit shy so that makes it hard for me, it also takes a while for me to get to know someone. I like to get to know the person first before I jump into anything long term. I have an (IPP) which means I can last longer than you can. don't believe me? come and find out for yourself.

My Ideal Person Someone who is happy to just hang out, have fun and laugh with you is someone worth sticking with. Being easy-going and willing to laugh at yourself are highly beneficial characteristics I look for in a partner. someone that is real, and we can grow together not only as a couple, but improve ourselves as well along the way. Kindness, loyalty,Similarity, Openness, Respectful and Sensitive, Independent, Empathetic, Funny,understanding and having the belief that relationships take work.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
hospital

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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